I have had the same or similar concerns as you
voice. Both Americans and Ukrainians in my home city
in the US have warmed me over and over again about
all the "bad" Ukrainian women who are out to get
everyone. I have met and dated many women over the
years here in the US. I have also known many, many
women who I have not had relationships with. I can
tell you this for sure. When it comes to a women's
ability to be truly evil, a Ukrainian women cannot
come close to am American women. Yes, a Ukrainian
women may use a man just to come to the US. Then she
can leave you. And yes, it can be heart breaking.
But consider the alternative. Try an American women.
They can not only leave you, but they can take
everything you own, and make life a living hell for
many years to come. If you have children with that
women, she can use the legal system in a
sophisticated and manipulative way to even try to
keep your children from you, even if you are a
totally law abiding, child support paying citizen.
This is common. Ask a lot of American men out there.
Now I ask you this. Go ask around. Try to find how
many Ukrainian women here in the US or back in
Ukraine take a man's home, his money, his children,
and sue him, etc.......
I live in a community of 100,000 Slavic people. So
far I have not been able to find one truly vicious
Ukrainian women. Yes, there are a few bitches out
there, but that is just real life.
These Ukrainian women are not trained emotionally
from a young age to hate men and go for the throat.
So think about that. Compare. A women who may use
you to get here and then leave vs. a women who will
use the legal system for years and years to try to
make your life miserable. I would chose the women
who would just leave me any day of the week.
Go to the Ukraine and speak with the police,
politicians, women, men, Brett, and everyone....What
happens in Ukraine if a women calls the police and
says my husband hit me and I feel pain inside (even
though there are no injuries, blood, bruises, cuts,
etc.). The answer is nothing happens. The police
probably laugh. In the US, however, it is a
mandatory arrest (CA law). Mandatory felony arrest
for no injuries and no evidence.
In the California public schools it is sexual
harassment if a 5 year old boy holds hands with a 5
year old girl. But if the girl initiates the
contact, the officials look the other way. So
American girls and boys are taught perversion and a
double standard from an early age. This leads to
laws and issues as cited above.
If you are worried about divorce here is something
to think about. The divorce rate amongst Ukrainian
Christians (Baptist and Pentecostals) is only about
1% - 3%. Maybe less. The divorce rate amongst the
same group on the American side is about 50+%. The
divorce rate amongst non-religious Ukrainians in
Ukraine is just about as high. So go find some
religious girl in Ukraine - maybe even one from a
small town. Just an idea - one way to have
statistics on your side.
So, there are some ideas to kick around.